I. From: The Most Excellency.
“Those who are well have no need of a Physician, but those who are sick.
I have not come to call the righteous, but the sinners, to repentance.” – – – Jesus Christ.
II. To fall sick is not a strange thing to mankind. Therefore everyone that is diseased needs the services of a Physician and the use of drugs.
Sometimes some little ailments require what is called “over-the-counter-drugs” to dispel them. Such medicine has a right prescription that go with it. As an instance, one leaflet enclosed with a capsule has this written on it
“One capsule daily or as directed by a Physician.”
There are varieties of dosages as there are drugs based on the intensity of the illness.
III. What is applicable to body sickness go for emotional and spiritual ailments. It is sad to note that there is a form of ailment that is commonest among people to which necessary and proper attention is not paid. They have been taking the only medicine indiscriminately to their own physical, emotional and spiritual peril.
The sickness is: to be “love-sick” and drug is “love-making” a.k.a sexual intercourse between the opposite sex.
IV. This is approved by God within the marriage set-up as contracted in the right way. God is the first and the only Match-Maker.
“And the Lord God said,” it is not good the man should be alone, I will make him a helper comparable to him.
Help meet, ie suitable. Genesis 2:18.
The man in response to the provision said
“This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out
of man.” v23
It means that for every man their is a woman meant for him. Whatever happens between them is of interest to their Maker. After all Adam and Eve
” were both naked, the man
and his wife, and were not
As a result of this provision anyone that is “love-sick” must marry to avoid complications (to burn with passion. ICorinthians 7:9c.)
To avoid marita mis-match, consult your Physician to provide the right and appropriate one in the due season. This provision is being abused by male or female : ranging from
“That the sons of God saw the daughters of men, that they were beautiful, and they took wives for themselves of all whom they chose.” (Genesis 6:2.) to choosing for themselves the “daughters of women to destroy it.” Daniel 11:17d.
Before making a choice, consult your Physician so that you can match each other. Have you chosen a wife or husband already, consult your Doctor, it is never too late.
VI. So many Saints of God never see any reason to involve Him in their love-making affairs. Do you ask “Is there any need?” Yes, because an overdose can be harmful and destructive.
It is not a sin nor a crime to put sugar in a cup of tea or coffee. It is very, very dangerous to put ten cubes of sugar in a tea-cup daily for a year, or possibly for ten to twenty years. The out-come could be diabetes or something else. Water is good for a thirsty soul but to decide to drink a twenty-five litre full of water container within fifteen minutes can be suicidal.
Over-indulgence in love-making is detrimental to couples’ physical and spiritual life. It needs to be put under control.
VII. There must be a mutual agreement between them. Apostle Paul enjois Saints.
“Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I Corinthians 7:5.
The experience of brother X will bring out the need for this type of write-up.
Before he got married in years 2002 December, he was fervent in prayer He could pray for hours non-stop. He used to praise and worship God. He used to see visions and clear revelations. He had dreams that were from the Living Lord.
By March 2003. I was instructed to tell him to reduce the rate of his going-in to his wife. It was extremely difficult for me to ‘intrude’ in the affairs of a new family.
On the day He had appointed, He said the message must be delivered. As I was thinking of a way to do this, the brother entered in the morning. Immediately, I could not contain it. He gave me wisdom to deliver it.
To my amazement, the brother said he had dwindled spiritually and he asked God for the reason. The reply in the night of his coming, according to him was “son reduce the frequency of your sexual intercourse with your wife.” it was then I became relieved. Can you now understand?
You need to always consult your Doctor regularly.
Stay blessed and prepared for the coming of the Lord.